I'm Facebook wasted, Twitter crazed, a Pinterest pinhead, Foursquare cubed, Hi-Fructose overloaded, and YouTube funny.
All of these are an everyday ritual in my life. I feel like a machine that must rise up again for another day of posting things that can sometimes be pointless, yet it makes me feel complete in a certain way, all because I have the power to post whatever I want in a social media frenzied virtual world.
Today, I am no longer having face-to-face conversations, they just don't appeal to me anymore, and those dates I used to take in order to find Mr. Right, well those are pretty much done through dating sites like okcupid, Match, and eharmony, and if I ever get that knack for being creative, well I can just post it all on a virtual board online and say "Le Vie."
I am not against technology or the Internet, I love it actually. I am just trying to find my own balance between sloppy drunk Facebook posts and checking in at McDonna's on 51st street for everyone to see and know where I am or what I have done.
Checking Facebook has become a morning ritual for me that fits somewhere in between brushing my teeth and creating a super wonderful breakfast to later post on Facebook and Twitter. Did I create this perfect omelette to eat or post? That is the question I find myself asking once it is all up for everyone in their own New Feeds and I have 15 likes after just 10 minutes.
I can either use my social media as a waste of everyone's time by posting chain posts about if you agree reshare, like, and repost, or I can go all political and harp on Obama and the world over seas, or I can write sappy love notes or say how much I miss my ex Travis. It can all happen on my Facebook wall and the News Feed, but then I have come to think that I want to kind of sound intelligent, and that I want my posts to bring new ideas and concepts to the digital table.
For example, I wanted to express the idea of a Xenophile and what it means, how to be one, and where to start. Most people would skip right on by my posts about how we should get to know other cultures by finding something in common that brings us together and breaks down barriers, like tattoos, that can bring my American culture together with the Indian culture. So, I would catch their attention with a photo that is a tattoo and henna at the same time, like a Henna Tattoo, and then place the word Xenophile, hoping to get comments on what it means or maybe someone will research it, which would show common ground among two different cultures. It is all about perspective and if you want to get that idea out there you have to think the way your viewers think and start from there.
Xenophile
Social media has become something I look at to find out who died, it is like a dynamic obituary that lets you know all the celebrities that have passed on and even old friends or family members. It also shows me who has a new single out in the world of music and entertainment, and how Mimi made out on the TV show Love and Hip-hop. I am not into shows like this, but I have many friends who are and therefore I catch up on the show through their own posts about the show and I find myself laughing out loud and giggling at the goofiness this show brings to me, and I have never even seen one episode. I have only watched it through their eyes and through their comments, the same goes for the show Scandal. I have never even seen one minute of the show, yet I already knew everything I pretty much needed to know thanks to the posts on my Facebook news feed. Another thing I see a lot of is political views. I am all for freedom of speech, but sometimes it is pretty harsh, and I find myself skipping over it, or if it is that bad I hide their posts from my own news feed and let life take effect, because I have that ability and so do my fellow Facebook and Twitter friends.
Social media can be viewed as negative, but I like to see it as positive in my case, because when I see things that I find myself asking, "is that true", I then wind up doing my own research and discovering a new side to the story or perspective. All of these posts make me want to either play the devil's advocate or view it in a new perspective which I think is a good thing because it has got my attention and it has made me do my own research.
Either way, Facebook is both negative and positive and it is shown through the Facebook fights with harsh words slung around, and it is positive through the sweet baby pictures and the ability to stay connected with your Aunt Millie in Chicago or your Uncle Lou in Washington State. All of social media keeps us connected and well i have to say that that is very worth the incoherent Frey that you can sometimes find yourself sucked into through all types of social media.
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